Tags
- Results-oriented behaviors
- How to enter a state of shared vision with a team and stay there
- How to create trust on a team
- How to stay rational and healthy
- How to make team decisions effectively
- How to move quickly and with high quality towards the team’s goals
The course was facilitated by an amazing couple, Jim and Michele McCarthy, authors of the book Software For Your Head.
My Takeaways
The outcome of the past two days is that my focus has been sharpened and honed on some critical components for forming extraordinary teams that can SHIP, scaling, and ultimately impacting epic cultural transformation.
The learning community in which I participate has actually been noodling over this inquiry for several months now, framed something like:
If we were to form a ‘next-gen Agency’ that utilizes swarm intelligence to build solutions, what is the most rapid and elegant way to:
1. Form a team.
2. Envision a product.
3. Agree on how it would be made.
4. Design and build it.
Turns out this is the exact simulation we ran through at BootCamp.
The process begins with a commitment to the Core Protocols – the sets of practices that enable people and teams to be exceptional. This really is ‘software for your head’ — what some friends and I have been referring to as “wetware programming” — rebooting the mind and creating new human protocols for communication and interaction that make us more effective, happy and empowered.
The protocols we used in the workshop included:
Pass (Unpass)
Check In / Check Out
Ask for Help
Protocol Check
Intention Check
Decider
Resolution
Perfection Game
Personal Alignment
Investigate
The protocol that was of large focus during the two-day session was Personal Alignment. The idea is to really level-up your self-awareness and ask – “What specifically do I want?”
This question is kind of scary, (at least it was for me.) The initial response to the question from my lizard brain: Run.
Instead, I went through the inquiry process (which was assisted by a partner engaging in the Investigate protocol), until we got down to the heart of it. We asked ourselves questions like:
“What is blocking me from having what I want?”
“What virtue – if I had it – would shatter this block of mine?”
We kept refining until the virtue that would shatter all blocks was identified.
The next step was to write down a personal alignment statement in the form of “I want [virtue].” Then we created a Signal to let others know when we are practicing our alignment, and a Response they can give you to demonstrate support. “When I say/xo ‘X,’ will you say/do ‘Y’?”
My initial virtue word was “Integrity/Integration,” because I often feel my energy pulled in different directions, making me feel weak and overwhelmed. We had the opportunity to explore our personal alignment via art, the result of which is the painting I made, posted above. I think I was trying to convey that I feel I live in three worlds –
on the upper left: the Darkness within me, my shadow world, filled with fear, doubt, hopelessness, negativity, pain, disappointment, anger, guilt, shame
on the upper right: the world I envision, the one I am constructing towards, the one singing the tune for which my heart yearns, filled with light, hope, beauty, truth, possibility, imagination, creativity, and love
on the bottom: the world in which we live, grounded, embodied, a beautiful tree of life with golden braids interweaving everyone and every thing, the place from which we build the world we want to inhabit
The exercise was a useful one, and actually revealed to me that ‘Integrity’ wasn’t necessarily the virtue I required to handle traversing these worlds — my desired virtue is “Self-Care.”
This was the big secret – The quality of the alignment will be equal to the quality of the results.
Great teams are formed by great people, who know what they need to be personally great and aligned in their flow, and feel safe to ask for help from their tribe to keep their well filled.
So my alignment statement was:
I want self-care. When I say “I can’t handle this,” will you say “You are not alone.”?
(I later realized I wanted an even more intimate signal/response of something like: When I say “I need to be held,” will you give me a hug?)
At any rate, I felt like I had a bit of a personal breakthrough, and made some new commitments to myself and the needs of my body/mind/spirit (self-care daily – combination of yoga, meditation, time in nature, healthy food, rest, time with family & friends, self-development retreats, time alone).
I usually feel guilty about “using up time” doing many of these activities, feeling like I “should” stay focused on the “real work,” not on personal “indulgences.” Now I’m experiencing a shift in consciousness and realizing that I’m not good for anyone — not myself, not my family or colleagues, and certainly not the greater world at large, if my source is not centered and continually fueled with the energy required for greatness.
So I return home with a new lust for life, and a toolbox of effective human protocols! Yay!
The workshop was only Part 1 of the BootCamp, as the conclusion is about designing and building together. A few of us are already bubbling with an idea for an “epic win,” which may involve the participation of several thousand people. (It turns out, if we gather our tribes, our numbers are pretty significant already.)
I’m very much looking forward to Part 2 of this adventure, and recommend checking out Jim & Michele’s work to any teams looking to be great.
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<gratitude> to Dan Mezick of New Technology Solutions for inviting me to the bootcamp 🙂
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Further exploring:
Live in Greatness: Core Protocols for Shared Vision
Software for Your Head
The McCarthy Show
World Building, McCarthy Style
Thank you for sharing. One of your best posts ever.
omg. love the painting. do you sell your work? i realize this one is personal, but i would love to see your other pieces.
congrats on the program. sounds uplifting.
one thing about “teams of greatness”: after reading Steve Jobs biography, i think the key to great teams is not settling for b players. there are lots and lots of b players. a’s are very rare. finding them and convincing them to work together is tough, but weeding out the b’s is a much more emotionally difficult and essentially ‘ruthless’ pursuit.
you are an a in my books, and thus you are the second person i’ve asked to advise me and my company. i look forward to talking more about this and hope you have a great weekend with your self. 🙂
if you feel like meeting tomorrow, i’m going to go dance in front of the competition (the UN building). 😉
cheers,
s
hey scott, thanks for the compliment. i’ve never sold any art, has always just been a hobby.
brilliant.
Personal Alignment factors into How to Do What You Love http://bit.ly/xkOOAG by Paul Graham
Good post !
Great, interesting and inspiring post. Seem you had a powerful bootcamp!
This is great, Venessa. I recently finished Vickie Gray’s (@adaptivecoach) book “Creating Time”. It’s about implementing the Core Protocols to create more time — which we could all use. I’d be happy to experiment w/ you because I’m confident the protocols are needed to scale asynchronous global collaboration here online. (preferably on a platform w/ #hashtags)
Very Venessa. Good to see alignig priorities in a thrivable way, nurturing the strong base that makes operation in 3D and virtual worlds possible.
When you get to the point of actually trying to figure out your team’s product, you might want to read Ash Maurya’s “Running Lean” book and summarize your model in a Lean Canvas. I find it helps you cut to the chase.
thank you for the recommendation, i’ve added it to my list
Scott, a suggestion: instead of seeking A players, seek “aspiring A players”.
I don’t seek. I stumble upon. It’s slower, but works well, because I trust the universe to bring me what I actually need, instead of what I think I need.
I don’t see the difference between A players and aspiring A players, unless that means they are more humble. Humbleness is nice, but I don’t mind if they know they are great. 🙂
Thanks for the suggestion.
Reblogged this on myonepercentaday and commented:
I want to share this brilliant and inspirational process from Venessa Miemis of emergent by design. The part of Vanessa’s generous sharing of her experience that resonates with me is my main block that holds me back from enjoying my passions and do what I genuinely want to do is guilt….. I couldn’t put it any better than Vanessa with her thoughts below
“I usually feel guilty about “using up time” doing many of these activities, feeling like I “should” stay focused on the “real work,” not on personal “indulgences.” Now I’m experiencing a shift in consciousness and realizing that I’m not good for anyone — not myself, not my family or colleagues, and certainly not the greater world at large, if my source is not centered and continually fueled with the energy required for greatness.
thanks for reposting!
Awesome post! love your work
Very much enjoyed this post. Thank you for sharing your experience. Somehow it helps me too!
thanks, glad you enjoyed
Venessa, if I would meet you regularly ‘in the flesh’ you could always get a hug!!! With love from Belgium, Ria
why thank you!
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